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A poem by Dorothy Law Nolte, PhD.  One that you need to read and one you need to learn.  I think this one is going to join the other two documents that live on my office wall.  This is the first addition I've made in over twenty-five years.  I think it's just that good.  Please pass this on to those you love.

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If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
 
Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte

 

I have a couple of questions for you:

How do you want your children to live?  It really is up to you.

If you’ve been damaged or you’ve damaged another, what can you do to fix it?

A suggestion:

Put your arms around your child and tell them how much you love them.  It’s a good start.

No offer today.  Just take a few minutes and reflect on this poem.  It’ll be time well spent.

 

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